September 9, 2010

What's in a name

I always thought picking a name for a child would be the funnest part of having a baby, that was of course until I fell pregnant. Wonderful opportunity - yes, huge responsibly - yes, fun... not-so-much.

We were still toying with about ten names right up until The Boy was delivered, but when we first saw him, we both knew instantly his name was Roman.

This time round it seems the stakes are even higher, not only do we want to pick a name we both love, one that reflects our heritage and personalities, one that doesn't compete with our epic-ly long (Polish) surname and one that I can scream across the playground without embarrassing myself or my child, but also one which fits with our growing identity as a family.

Maybe I'm reading too much into it all, but I think that our names are so much a part of us and possibly effect our growing and developing personalities. My maiden name was Rebecca Wilson, Rebecca was the most popular name in the year of my birth and so 'we' were everywhere, in college I was actually in a class with another Rebecca Wilson! Blair (my husband) on the other-hand had an unusual name for the time. I think we had very different experiences as a result of our names.

Here are a few name sites I have been perusing:

I suppose we can always go with 'Moon Unit' if all else fails...

2 comments:

Lauren said...

Oh its hard, isn't it??!! I think we've got it down to a name for each sex, but I'll need a plan B name too just in case the names don't suit!! Best of luck! x

Sally said...

I think it is best to wait to meet the little person before making final decisions.
We found naming our children tricky too... and as we aren't married ended up inventing a surname for our children!